adiorablegrant asked: What I also think is strange is that, with interviewers, (this isn't just with Kanye but on these talk shows) They really don't listen well to the person they're interviewing. I also wonder why so many people feel like they have the right to dictate and judge what kind of life someone else lives. I think this is why when you support someone in any way, it makes a huge difference to their confidence and self-esteem. Because then they think "Wow someone actually believes in me."
When someone is speaking to another person, you’re gonna find that they will usually say “I hear what you are saying” instead of, “I’m listening to what you are saying”. There’s a huge difference between hearing and listening. People just need to really LISTEN to not just the words that people are saying but to their voice and to the emotion, and the body language they’re showing you cus that usually tells you more. The reason WHY people won’t understand is cus that takes a lot of effort in terms of attention, processing, analysing and concentrating, and that requires too much “work” for some people therefor it’s just easier to say, “huh? i don’t get what you’re saying” or “im still tryna get what you mean by…”
I hate small talk
Tell me about how lonely you are or tell me about why you keep waking up in the morning or talk to me about your mum’s eyes and your dad’s laugh. I don’t care about the weather and you don’t care about how my job’s going.
WEBBZ FEAT. J NICS “HOLDING ON TO A PRAYER”
After releasin the record with Cam’ron, He dropped his new album "The Pursuit of Happiness: A Black Man In AmeriKKKa and now he released a new video for this record "Holding On To A Prayer" that I loveee. Listen to what he sayin in this video. REALLY listen to it, cus it’s some real shit.
NOTE: For better viewing make sure you switch the quality to HD 720 or 1080p.
- My Mom: Asians are the some of the safest people in the world
- Me: There are asian gangs too and stuff
- My Mom: And they're called study groups
is the test of each person growing individually,
without growing apart. Melanie Fiona
you’re 1 step ahead of those who have more. Dirty Souf Yankee
no bandana or vest,
My woman loves me though
even mentally I’m a mess
She deserve the world,
thankful for my son but i’m scared to have a girl Webbz “Make A Way” Feat Cam’Ron
'People spend a lot of time just talkin about how they feel. They go to therapists, or tell other people who did what to them and describe how they feel about it. They can talk for hours about their feelings but most of them don’t really FEEL their feelings. They intellectualize and analyze their feelings without actually feeling them.
People are afraid to really feel their feelings, afraid of losing control, afraid of the pain involved in feeling their emotions, of feeling the sense of loss or failure or whatever the emotion brings with it. So many people are afraid to cry. So much of life is about what you feel rather than what you think. Being strongly connected to your emotional life is so essential to living it with high energy and a sense of fulfillment and satisfaction.’